soldier pen pals

Soldier Pen Pals

Searching for a Soldier pen pal? Or are you looking for pen pals for soldiers? Either way, use the panel to the right to browse the photo listings of soldier pen pals at   > > > >

About Soldier Pen Pals

Soldier pen pals have become an increasingly popular choice for those looking for a penpal to write to. Men and women who are soldiers find getting news from home wonderful and you will be helping them in this and other ways. (Or, if you are a soldier yourself, here is your opportunity to find pen pals at home - search now using the panel to the right.)

Perhaps you are looking to be just friends or perhaps you want to become a pen pal with a soldier because you have romance in mind. Whatever the case, a soldier pen pal is a popular category of pen pal today. Below we look at the advantages of becoming one of the increasing numbers of pen pals for soldiers.

Here we look at the subject of soldier pen pals purely from the point of view of the person at home who is considering writing to a soldier:

Become a Pen Pal With a Soldier: the Advantages

* Army soldiers are dedicated people, people who have bravely chosen to serve their country, so this fact alone should tell you a lot about their character. This in itself is often given as a reason why a soldier pen pal makes a good pen pal - see Soldiers Pen Pals for more on this.

* A soldier pen pal can be exciting to get to know as his or her life may sometimes be full of problems to solve and much potential danger, but it is important to remember that this is the soldier's job. He or she is a professional carrying out a difficult job often under very tough conditions. This makes it important that you respect this, and offer the soldier you write to the kind of companionship and support he or she should have.

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(Soldiers can find civilian pen pals here too)
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Using the panel above you can find an American soldier pen pal, a British soldier pen pal or almost any other kind of soldier pen pal where the military are active for that country. These are armed forces pen pals in the army, navy, airforce and other armed services.

* A Soldier pen pal will be keen to hear from you, so will be a good correspondent who in general reads and answers your emails or letters in good time.

* A soldier penpal is said to be a loyal pen pal. Of course this is a generalization, but qualities such as loyalty are obviously an important part of being an army soldier or any other member of the armed forces, so it makes sense.

* A relationship with a Soldier pen pal can take any of the following forms: support and appreciation of what the troops are doing for their country, friendship and exchange of letters, dating of single soldiers.

* Share in the experiences of a soldier travelling around the world and operating in foreign countries... But never press a soldier (or any military personnel) to share experiences, as this can be a disturbing and negative thing under some circumstances. Soldiers will share what they want to share in their own time.

* You can talk about your hobbies and ask your soldier pen pal about his or hers. This reminds a soldier of life at home and helps keep him or her in touch with life at home.

Soldier pen pals can be just good friends or they can be romantic relationships, that is to say, dating partners. Many begin as friends then as the relationship develops the participants can become romantically involved. So, when you contact a new soldier pen pal for the first time there may well be such possible routes for the relationship to go. Some soldier penpals may become just aquaintances with those who write them, while others may become more than just friends and there is always the possibility that you may meet that special someone who you will want to share the rest of your life with.

Where to find a Soldier Pen Pal

For a soldier pen pal we recommend going to Military Pen Pal .net and joining for free. This military pen pal site protects your personal details in a way that many don't. It also has SmartMatch, a new technology that connects you with like-minded people automatically. So, why not give it a go? You can carry out an initial search for potential soldier pen pals by using the panel on this page, above right. All you have to do is choose the age group and home country/ state of the person you would like to meet, then click the button -- it's very easy. You'll then be presented with a list of profiles of potential soldier penpals who meet the criteria you selected.

So in conclusion, soldier pen pals can make great penfriends. They often live exciting lives yet because the opportunities for the soldier to meet other people may be somewhat restricted, they will particularly enjoy emails you send. So why not find a soldier pen pal right away? Just use the panel above right to reach a list of potential soldier penpals with photos and their interests summarized. And once you get interested yourself, it's free to join with a basic membership, so you can try it all out at no cost!

Try out the panel above right and get to know a new soldier pen pal today. And please don't forget to

We recommend Military Pen Pal .net for soldier pen pals and all military pen pals.

Soldier Pen Pal Sites and Pages for Further Reading:

Soldier Pen Pals
Contains an interesting article on soldiers pen pals, as well as other advice and resources for those seeeking a soldier penpal.

How to be Pen Pals With a Soldier
A site that helps you with how to be pen pals with a soldier. It provides a list of things to send if you are sending a care package.

Military single pen pals first email to a soldier
What to say in that first email to a soldier or any category of military single pen pal. Getting the first email right is important as you don't want the relationship to end before it begins.

What to write about to a soldier pen pal
Here's a page that applies not just to soldier pen pals but to any military pen pal. It has some useful ideas about what to write about to your new penpal, taking into account any constraints there may be as a consequence of having an soldier job and being posted abroad.

Forces Pen Pals Page
Our page about forces pen pals and soldier pen pals here at, where we provide a very brief beginners' guide to the whole topic.

Military Pen Pals Responsibilities
About military pen pals: another page here at It includes Vinny Appleby's ideas about your responsibilities if you become a pen pal with a soldier.

Military Pen Pal Lists Online Basic Instructions
Our own instructions on how to create your own military pen pal lists using the site search at, our recommended single soldiers site for those with either friendship or romance in mind.

Military Pen Pals Resources
A summary page listing the other military pen pals pages and resources at

Adopt a Soldier
Adopt a US Soldier at this not for profit site run by volunteers that "connects supportive Americans with deployed soldiers" and which goes on to offer a means by which to "communicate encouragement and express gratitude to the brave men and women serving our nation". Unlike some other sites listed on this page this is clearly not romance orientated, but purely supportive and encouraging.



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